Ask 4
“7th [house] help: I always dream[t of] having a perfect small family in the future, but when I gave [my] birth chart to a reader he said [I] should forget love and having a perfect family, and start looking for a sugar daddy; please tell me if it real.”- Anonymous
Okay, guys; I think it’s always best to steer clear of astrologers who speak too generally and definitively. I’m not sure if a chart can show you that having a nuclear family is not going to happen for you. Astrology doesn’t take away your free will; it only tells you your potential and your propensity to do, feel, or be things.
For you specifically, you have a seventh house stellium. You have two pretty bright planets here, your Sun and Jupiter, indicating your partner being a focal point in your life, as well as a major benefactor; I see where the “sugar daddy” thing came from, but this could also mean that your partner will teach you a lot about the world. This is especially true with Mercury in this house, as well.
If you want to look at the seventh house as representing your partner as a whole, these planets will indicate that they’re smart, mercurial, jovial, large and creative; a very bright. uplifting energy. The Lord of this house is Venus, making the enactor of this house the planet of love and relationships. She finds herself in your eighth house in Scorpio, further indicating that your partner will help you discover things about yourself, especially things you would be more willing to forget or ignore.
Your unedited question mentioned things about your family and I agree with you: your Moon conjunct Chiron in Capricorn would be the likely cause of that. It’s interesting that you brought it up, as this Moon/Chiron conjunction forms a square (a harsh aspect) with your 7H Jupiter in Libra.
If I had to boil that aspect down to one idea, I’d wager that the emotional trauma caused by the authoritative nature of your parents has limited your ability to grow into your life’s role, your ability to learn from your partners, as well as your ability to benefit others with your (likely wonderful) advice.
If you find yourself in a place where you can afford it, my Love + Relationship Reading would be able to give you a more in-depth look at your seventh house, its ruler, Venus, and a bunch of other information. I also have a Childhood Reading if you wanted to get into that Moon/Jupiter conjunction.